![]() "You're a slut, Arthur," he breathes, and it rolls off his tongue far easier than it should, so satisfying when Arthur quivers, nodding in either encouragement or agreement. "Fuck you," Arthur snarls into his mouth, and Eames can see his deepening blush when he opens his eyes, " Fuck – say it again."Įames licks at his bared teeth, reaching down to yank Arthur's hands away from him and wrench them behind his back. Eames engages in a bit of offhand slut-shaming Arthur gets off on being called names. In You I Crash Cars by five_ht demonstrates it in spades. Just to be sure, though, House had to clarify: "You tell them they're stupid, fuck them, and leave?"Īs mentioned, there's a big overlap in the Venn diagram of verbal humiliation, dirty talk and begging. Which we will start with.įilling In by deelaundry is a fun and memorable ficlet in which McKay, providing a unique type of escort service, teaches House about how deriding people's intelligence can satisfy them, sexually or otherwise. One is Inception-I know there are more where are they?-and the rest are SGA, plus a House/SGA crossover. Nonetheless! Here are 9 fic recs to go with the essay. Even stories that feature it heavily! It's as if people don't realize the scenes they've written or read that center on dirty talk or submission or name-calling actually contain consensual humiliation.Īll by way of saying (a) you should read that essay and (b) it was hard to track down stories to rec here, whether I'd read them before or was trying to find new ones, because of the tag issue. It seems many other fans have some discomfort (ironically) with humiliation kink as well, and/or with differentiating it from unwanted humiliation, based on that essay and people's comments around fandom about having a humiliation/embarrassment squick and the fact that it is freaking hard to find fics tagged with "humiliation" on delicious and in archives, etc. It's such a wonderful snarl, that kink, wanting to be humiliated and being ashamed of wanting to be humiliated and enjoying the shame of wanting to be humiliated and being ashamed of enjoying the shame of wanting to be humiliated, and on and on, all that beautiful recursiveness, the kink just endlessly compounding itself. ![]() It eroticizes the thing that makes me feel bad, and makes the feeling-bad feel good. ![]() Humiliation kink, for me, does that wonderful thing that only kink can do: it allows me to wallow pleasurably in a feeling that, in other circumstances, would make me feel bad. If you haven't spent much time thinking about it, or even if you have, I highly recommend it. One thing that has helped clarify what erotic humiliation means and what it can do for people is thingswithwings's essay, The Riches of Embarrassment: Or, Why I Don't Have a Humiliation Squick. I forget that I have a kink for humiliation directed at a character being a sexual creature or wanting sex at all. I forget that humiliation is threaded through my noncon-fantasy Mary Sue stories and that I've written at least two dirty-talk fics and a physical exposure fic. but not necessarily a lot of understanding (on this reader's part, anyway). Often fics assume that at least one character gets off on humiliating or being humiliated, assume that the reader can sympathize, and run with that, so you get a lot of name-calling and blushing etc. I have trouble sometimes with humiliation kink fic. So, indeed, we are covering name-calling, shaming, dirty talk, kneeling, crawling, begging, uncomfortable confessions, you name it. Merriam-Webster says: "to reduce to a lower position in one's own eyes or others' eyes : mortify." The synonyms it lists include: abase, chasten, cheapen, debase, degrade, demean, discredit, disgrace, dishonor, foul, humble, lower, shame, sink, smirch, take down. In fact, I had to go look up "humiliation" in the dictionary to see exactly what it encompasses. That includes consent play, because humiliation is so easily and intricately bound up in things a person wants-but-does-not-want-ashamed to want something, wanting to be told it's wrong to want it, wanting to revel in wanting it or doing it even if it's frowned on by their culture. One character verbally humiliating the other for one or both parties' sexual satisfaction. This time we are focusing on consensual verbal humiliation. Once again, I found myself having to delineate what got included for this square or I'd never stop looking for fics.
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